You didn’t come this far to live a life that doesn’t feel like yours.
This is where ambitious high-achievers become brave, heart-led change makers — building lives on their own terms instead of living below their potential.
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In my world, going against the grain isn’t rebellion. It’s the standard. We question the rules. We redefine success. We build lives that actually feel good to live.
Even when it means walking a path most people don’t understand.
If you’ve landed here, chances are you’ve always done everything ‘right’. The career. The house. The education. The income. By society’s standards, you’re successful.
And yet… something in you knows there’s more.
But interestingly, more often means less. Less stress. Less pressure. Less people pleasing. Less anxiety. Less ‘performing’ for approval.
And in that space, something powerful happens. More freedom. More self-trust. More spaciousness in your days. A slower pace of life — without shrinking your ambition.
You’re done chasing a version of success that looks good from the outside but feels empty on the inside.
You want to lead, build, create and love - with purpose and from alignment.
My work calls in ambitious high-achievers who are done squeezing themselves into a system that was never designed for them.
Inside my world, (wo)men learn to…
Face their fears, so those fears no longer control their life decisions
Reconnect with their bodies and intuition, so that they remember who they are and what they truly want
Build lives on their terms, welcoming freedom, spaciousness and meaningful connections
Reclaim their inner power, stepping into success in their careers and businesses without abandoning themselves
Live authentically, setting boundaries, speaking their truth and leading their lives with confidence
“To have all these advantages, all this momentum, all these opportunities and then settle for mediocre and then defend the status quo and then worry about corporate politics - what a waste. I don’t think we have a choice. I think we have an obligation to change the rules, to raise the bar, to play a different game, and to play it better than anyone has any right to believe is possible.”
- Seth Godin
Here’s how we get yóu there:
With the BCOME Framework™.
The foundation of this method is key: the answers to your life are in your body. Not your mind. Yet, we all grow up learning that we have to solve every problem with our brains. But you can’t ‘think’ your way out of bigger life decisions and challenging transition periods - you need to feel it. Process it. Heal it. And then build the capacity to hold yourself in the discomfort that comes with change and growth.
Body | The answers to your life are in your body - reconnect with your body, heart and intuition. You can’t think your way out of the bigger life questions and decisions - you need to feel it.
Clarity | Get crystal clear on your vision, your values, your dreams and what you truly want for the next era of your life, and the woman you need to become to call all of that in. Become your own inner compass.
Ownership | Learn to own every part of you - your shadows, patterns,fears, traumas and stories that are running the show of your life underneath the part of you that knows better. This becomes the portal for your growth.
Messy Middle | When the old is gone, and the new hasn’t fully arrived yet, you’ll enter an uncomfortable ‘in-between’ space. Learn how to hold yourself in this messy middle.
Emergence | Build the deep self-trust to truly manifest the life you desire and be able to hold it. Create the identity shift your next era requires of you.
You were never meant to fit into the system. You were meant to build your own.
Hi, my name is Myrthe!
Ex-corporate consultant, Type A personality, recovering high-achiever turned heart-led entrepreneur, in my softer, slower, no-bra era, living my best life under the Portuguese sun.
I spent 7 years working in financial consulting across Amsterdam and Singapore. Long hours, high pressure, a career that looked impressive on paper. But underneath it all, something felt off.
It took years of inner work, courage, and a few personal breakdowns (and break-ups!) to finally step away from the life I thought I should live — and start building the one I actually wanted.
Today I live in Portugal, close to the ocean, running a purpose-driven business that allows for slow mornings, meaningful work and a life that feels deeply aligned.
It wasn’t easy. I had to face fears around money, safety and worthiness, let go of relationships that no longer fit and start over more than once.
But I would choose this path again a thousand times. Read more about me here.
Let’s work together.
Through mentorships, retreats and transformational programs, I guide ambitious (wo)men through the identity shifts and big life transitions required to build a life that feels deeply aligned — because the hardest place to live for a high-achiever is below their true potential.
Find out more about my coaching work below.
