Are you ready to claim this second round of success that only your most radically authentic self can create?

Because let's be honest, darling…

No amount of therapy, journaling or doing more will get you there - as long as it's built on a censored version of who you are.

Deep fulfillment doesn't co-exist with a nervous system running on "am I enough?"

The purpose, the freedom, the relationships, the impact on the world you crave - they don't match with the woman who's still playing it safe.

So, this 2nd chapter requires your fully expressed self, not the limited self you were taught to be.

It requires your wounded high-achiever to trust herself deeper than she ever did before.

And it requires the part of you that chooses safety to start choosing courage from now on.

This doesn’t mean you need to do more.

It means you need to be more than you've ever dared to be.

Unfiltered. Uncensored. You.

That's the work we do in Meant For More. 

 
 

Do you lie awake at 3.14am worrying about…?

  • Not living your full potential and hating the idea of having more in you that isn’t coming out, as the super intelligent, hyper self-aware, high-achieving woman that you are?

  • Doing the same boring shit for the next 40 years if you don’t take a risk right now?

  • Your kids (or other people who look up to you) not being proud of you and seeing you as the example you want to be, but instead as the hard working mum who was never home and only cared about building that impressive pension fund and driving her Mini Cooper?

  • Having traded the best years of your life for the worst ones - sitting in B2B Zoom calls all day - to finally live after 67?

  • How exceptional you are at ‘holding it all together’ inside a life that doesn't fully fit you anymore. 

  • Regretting not starting the business,

Because you, my dear, want to be remembered for your brave choices, not the safe ones.

You want to be the example for your children that shows them what a meaningful life looks like.

You want to look back at your life in 40 years and feel that you have actually lived it, not just pushed through it from achievement to achievement.

You want your life to matter, and your actions, your work, your decisions, your energy to be your legacy.

So, let’s redefine success. And let’s make it mean something - so that you get to feel freakin’ turned on by the prospect of the next 40 years again.

If you’re doubting whether to start a new career, go back to school, how you can leave an actual impact in the world, invest or save your money, give priority to yourself or your kids, move to a different country, buy a piece of land in Portugal and build a house on it…

Or if you’re feeling that something needs to change, but you’re not yet sure what it is…

This is your space.

You’re the one who’s read every book, had her fair share of therapy sessions, sat in every circle… You’ve cried about it, talked about it, processed it, meditated on it, pulled cards on it…and still find yourself - at the end of yet another year - living a version of your life that fits about as well as a toddler sized bathing suit on a grown up man.

But you're still not doing the thing you know you need to do.

So, you keep almost-changing your life.

Almost quitting the job. Almost launching the business. Almost leaving the relationship. Almost raising the standard. Almost booking the ticket. Almost saying what you really want instead of packaging it into something more digestible, less inconvenient, easier for everyone else to handle.

You promised yourself it would be different this time - only to find yourself in the exact same place as before.

 
 
 

My gift? I see your blind spots before you do.

 Not because I'm smarter, or because I have all the answers. But because sometimes, even trailblazers and conscious leaders like you need a guide to reveal the blind spots you can’t see by yourself – just like I couldn’t see mine.  

I ask the questions you've been hoping nobody would ask - and then I'm going to sit with you in the discomfort of actually answering them.

 I'll name what you're avoiding before you've finished explaining it.

And I’ll make it pretty hard to keep bullshitting yourself.

The work we do in Meant For More asks something from you that most containers won't: radical honesty about the gap between where you already are and where you're actually want to be.

 If you're not ready for someone (that would be me, Myrthe) to name that gap out loud - lovingly, directly, without letting you change the subject - this isn't your space.

I help you become the kind of woman who can finally tolerate the consequences of her own truth. 

So, prepare to leave your beautiful excuses at the door.

 I’m the woman who sees straight through the overthinking, the “it’s not the right time”, the endless preparation, the hyper-self-awareness, the waiting for certainty or clarity, the “I’m fine” that comes a little too fast. I’m the woman who lovingly calls your bluff.

My work sits at the intersection of deep shadow work, radical self-responsibility and “babe, respectfully, your life is not going to magically change while you keep pretending you don’t already know.”

We look at the places where you’re still bargaining with yourself, shape-shifting to be easier to love, calling your fear “logic,” and waiting for a version of certainty that does not exist.

We go straight to the thing you keep not saying. The decision you keep not making. The version of yourself you keep almost-choosing and then talking yourself out of. 

Then we do something about it - we change your fcking life.

With love, obviously.

So if you’re up for this… Welcome. It's about time.

 
 
 

The BCOME method ™

Here’s how we get you from "I know I'm meant for more" to "Holy shit, I'm actually living it."

With my proven 5-step coaching & embodiment framework: The BCOME method ™

Note: this is not a structured process that everyone goes through step-by-step. This is a fluid, continuous process, where you will move between steps all the time, depending on where you are in your journey.

 
 

The answers to your life are in your body. You can’t think your way out of the bigger life questions and decisions. You need to feel it. So the foundation of our work together is to reconnect with your body, your heart and your intuition, after having lived in your head for so long - overthinking, analyzing, spiraling.

This is where you get clarity on the vision for the next era of your life, your dreams and the woman you need to become to call all of that in. You stop asking everyone else for permission… and you start trusting yourself as your own inner compass. You redefine your values, your vision and get crystal clear of what you want.

You learn to own every part of you, working with the shadows, patterns, traumas and stories that are running the show of your life underneath the part of you that knows better. The part that says ‘yes’ when you mean ‘no’. That chooses familiar over true. We make it visible - and use it as the portal into the decision you're facing right now.

Once you have the new vision and you’ve done the inner work to start moving towards it, you’ll find yourself in an uncomfortable ‘in-between’ space for a while. The old is gone, the new hasn’t fully arrived yet. Here you learn how to hold yourself in this messy middle, instead of running back to your comfort zone.

The last step. In order to actually create the life you desire, you need to be able to hold it. The woman you once were hasn’t failed, she just can’t take you where you’re going. This is where the actual identity shift happens, and where you’ll flip the operating model of the woman you were to your version 2.0.

 
 
 
 

This is for you, if:

  • You’re a woman in your 30s or 40s and you’ve got everything you once wanted and worked so hard for - yet secretly you can't imagine living this exact life for the next half of your life.

  • You’ve always felt slightly too big for the mainstream path - and you crave more freedom, purpose and meaning without sacrificing your ambition, intelligence or edge. 

  • You're done waiting for the "right moment" - more time, more money, more certainty, more clarity - and you're finally ready to admit that none of those things are what's actually keeping you stuck. 

  • You secretly envy women who make bold, life-changing decisions - and wonder what would happen if you finally let yourself do the same. 

  • You're wildly self-aware. You've done the therapy, the coaching, the retreats, the inner work. You can articulate your problems and your patterns beautifully - yet you're still running the same loop.

  • You're done collecting insights in your journal. You want your growth to show up in your actual life - in your relationships, your mornings, your decisions, your work.

  • You're exceptional at being successful and holding it all together - but you're becoming more and more exhausted from carrying a life that no longer fits.

  • You've been thinking your way out of every problem for years, but you’re tired of analysing yourself and ready to start trusting yourself.

And you are deeply, exquisitely, exhaustingly done with your own bullshit.

This is not for you, if:

❌ You're looking for another self-help course to do in your own time (you have enough self-awareness - you need courageous action by now).

❌ You keep blaming the timing, your ex, your childhood, your nervous system, Mercury retrograde (lol) or "I have a lot going on right now" for the fact that nothing changes in your life (while you know deep down that part of you is just very attached to the safety of your current life). 

❌ You secretly enjoy the comfort of almost-changing-your-life, because then you never have to truly risk failure, rejection, judgment or regret.

❌ You're more attached to your story about why you're stuck than you are to actually getting unstuck. 

❌ You want certainty before you're willing to act (we both know you’re never going to feel ready, right?!)

❌ You want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it. You want expansion without discomfort. (Welcome to adulthood, babe 😉)

❌ You want someone to fix you, make the decision for you, or hand you a step-by-step blueprint for your life (but unfortunately adulthood means no one is coming to save you - it’s on you, my dear).

❌ You don’t trust yourself enough yet to make an investment of time, money and energy before you have guarantees. That decision itself is part of the work.

The women who belong here don’t wait for me to convince them, they already know.

 
 
 

We both know you don’t want to waste any more time.

You know how fast this first half of your life went by. You know how much time it takes to actually build something. So you also know you don’t want to waste any more time.

Every day you stay loyal to the success you’ve built so far, it will cost you in time, energy and the fulfilment of what else is possible for you.

There will come a moment that the cost of things staying the same will feel heavier than the discomfort of change. And if you’re still reading this far, that moment for you is now.

Every cell in your body is already calling you forward into this 2nd chapter of your life, but your mind is still afraid to let go of the safety of your old life and embrace that new, I’m-going-to-do-whatever-the-Fck-I-want version of yourself.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate - our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.”

- Marianne Williamson

 
 
Let's go?

Inside Meant For More, this is exactly what you get:

  • 2x monthly group coaching sessions | Live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)

  • 1x monthly energy sessions | Transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom (90 mins)

  • Quarterly mastermind intensives | Deep-dive, workshop-style sessions on e.g. your values, your vision, your new identity.

  • Regular Full or New Moon circles

  • 1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)

  • Full Access to the MFM vault | Includes everything I’ve ever created, ready for you to binge on-demand, Netflix style. Trainings, exercises, yoga classes, meditations, breathwork sessions and recommendations for books & podcasts

  • WhatsApp Support with Myrthe | You have me in your back pocket for questions and support in between sessions, with an empowering, loving community that celebrates you, listens to you and holds you to the level you’re stepping into.

 
 

Your Investment

This is not a few months of superficial content - it’s 12 months of being held while you redesign your life around your own deeper inner truth. And the investment reflects that.

So, if you’re looking for something light, comfortable and cheap… this isn’t it.

And that’s intentional. This is the kind of investment you make when you stop asking “Is this worth it?” and start asking “Am I ready for this?”

 
 
 

Disclaimer

Meant For More is an educational and personal development program. The information shared within this container is intended for learning, reflection, and personal growth purposes only. While this space is designed to support meaningful transformation, results and outcomes cannot be guaranteed. Your experience and progress depend on your own participation, effort, commitment and personal circumstances.

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Nothing shared within this program should be considered medical, psychological, financial, legal, or professional advice. Participants are encouraged to consult with a qualified professional regarding their individual situation before making any health, financial, legal, or other significant personal decisions.