A masterclass for the woman in her 30s or 40s who knows she’s meant for more than pressured timelines, “poor-me-I’m-single” pity parties and bread crumbs.
Tuesday December 16th | 6pm Lisbon/UK time | Pay What You Want
I know you want to find that partner. And you will.
But Single, Sexy & Settled Within isn’t about finding “the one.” It’s about becoming the woman who no longer abandons herself while she waits.
Being single in a world obsessed with marriage, milestones, and “are you here with your husband?” questions isn’t a failure — it’s a spiritual initiation.
“You’re still single?” There must be something wrong with you.
“I really want to be in a relationship” You’re needy and desperate.
Be single in your 30s, and you’re
It takes courage and strength:
To hold your standards steady when society is whispering you “should” be somewhere else by now
To be single and remain soft…
To be without a partner and still believe in love…
To walk alone and still choose hope…
That’s the quiet, unshakeable courage of a spiritual warrior.
So let me tell you something, my love: you’re not behind. You’re not late.
You’re a woman learning to hold her self-worth, her sovereignty, and her standards — even when the world tries to shake them. You’re a woman learning to be ok with being single - not because you’ve given up on love, but because you want to feel good while you wait. Maybe you are actively looking, or maybe you’re not interested in a relationship right now…wherever you are in your single journey…if you want to find peace and purpose in your single era, this masterclass is for you.
And yes…
My standards these days say “no breadcrumbs.”
(I’m not a pigeon.)
You’re in a season where your single-ness (chosen or not) is testing you, because the world thinks it should be otherwise. It’s the season that requires you to become spiritually unshakeable and grounded within yourself — a woman who holds herself with more strength, softness, and self-trust than the world ever taught her.
This isn’t a pity party — we’re not here for “poor me, I’m single” energy.
This is a high-vibe, self-led, deeply empowering space for women who are ready to rise in their self-worth, where we explore what it means to be grounded, empowered, sexy and settled within yourself during this season of life.
This masterclass is for the woman who…
Is single in her 30s or 40s (and maybe even living abroad)
Feels “behind” and “not enough” while everyone else gets engaged, married, pregnant…
Is done justifying herself and the “are you here alone”? questions
Craves to feel seen and understood by other women on the same path
Wants nothing more than to feel settled within herself — not because she doesn’t want partnership anymore, but because she understands that she’ll find that partner once she is steady within
But your heart is longing for a different way of living.
You are longing for a life in alignment with your deepest heart’s desires, away from society’s expectations, free from all the pressure, with more joy, deep connections and purposeful work, and…
…the courage to make decisions for yourself instead of anyone else.
Great. Then you’re in the right place!
What you’ll walk away with:
A reframe of “single-ness” that feels empowering, not shameful — and how to freakin’ own it
Not needing a man anymore to feel “settled“ — you are settled within yourself
A “grown-up-woman relationship” with timelines, comparison, and pressure
Permission to desire partnership — without abandoning your power
A nervous system that no longer spirals when someone else gets engaged (again).
Feeling at home within yourself — not because you’ve given up on love, but because you’ve stopped giving up on you.
Higher standards and clearer boundaries (no more crumbs)
Zero tolerance for breadcrumbs, mixed signals, or “I’m not ready but…” energy.
A level of self-trust that makes you emotionally unavailable for anything less than clarity, consistency, and actual effort.
After working together, Andrea is feeling lighter, has new tools to face her fears and gained a ton of confidence.
“I contacted Myrthe after a recommendation from a friend. I was quite hesitant and not sure if this was what I needed, but I knew I wanted a different approach to therapy. After working with Myrthe, I am feeling lighter, having new tools to face my insecurities and fears, and mostly thinking in a more expansive way. In the beginning I was resistant to open up, but once I did, I immediately felt the change in mindset. My main take away working with Myrthe was learning about surrendering, gaining confidence on our own desires and truths and trusting the process.“
- Andrea
join for INSPIRING TEACHINGS, guided practices, HOT-SEAT COACHING, reflection & CONNECTION
See you on August 15th! (Can’t make it? Recording will be available)
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