This isn’t therapy…

If we were 2 glasses of chilled rose in, you’d probably admit that…

You’ve built a pretty successful life. Maybe you’re a CEO, founder, manager, doctor, or something else entirely. You’ve earned the degrees, promotions, titles, money or recognition you once wanted.

But somewhere along the way, you’ve found yourself standing at a crossroads - no longer feeling challenged or inspired by the life you worked so hard to build, and secretly asking yourself: “Is this it?”

You just know that what you wanted 20 years ago isn’t necessarily what you want for the next 20.

And somewhere deep down, you know your old definition of success no longer fits - even if you haven’t quite figured out what replaces it yet.

You secretly dream of packing your bags and moving abroad for a few years and living the slow life. You desire work that matters more than another impressive promotion (and you’ve got an epic business idea sitting in your Notes app begging to be executed!). Or maybe you’ve been thinking about leaving the relationship that hasn’t turned you on for years (yes, I mean that in more than one way).

And you keep coming back to the big question of: “What if I actually did it?”

And then… almost automatically… You’d tell me all the 43 reasons why you shouldn’t.

Because you’re very good at being sensible. Very good at explaining why now isn’t the right time. Very good at making the thing you secretly want sound wildly impractical.

So, instead, you keep almost-changing your life.

Almost quitting the job.
Almost launching the business.
Almost leaving the relationship.
Almost booking the ticket.
Almost saying what you really want instead of packaging it into something smaller, less inconvenient, easier for everyone else to handle.

And maybe that’s the part that’s starting to piss you off.

Because you don’t actually want another year of almost.

The wisdom of your body + the curious, tough loving mirror of a coach – combined.

Because some things don't shift through talking alone.

We’re taught to think our way through life. To analyze. Rationalize. Make the sensible choice. To look outside ourselves for the answer. And somewhere along the way, we forget how to hear ourselves.

But your body knows things your mind can never reach.

So, if you’ve been trying to think your way out of a decision, a transition or a life that no longer fits, there comes a point where more thinking won’t give you the answer.

This is why my coaching is body-led, and why we’ll constantly bridge the gap between what your mind believes, and what your body knows. And when these two start working together, things begin to move.

And that’s what makes this work so impactful.

You were never meant to fit into the system - You were meant to build your own.

Are you ready to stop living by everyone else’s expectations and start making choices that are actually yours? Are you ready to build your life around your unique gifts and purpose?

Because you know you’re most powerful - and most valuable to the world - when you’re living from deep alignment with your gifts and your true self.

So, let’s break you out of the box you might have been living in for a while. Let’s show you what becomes possible once you see what you have to offer this world.

That’s why, in my space, we don’t do mundane. And we don’t do mediocre.

We do big visions. Big shifts. Big feelings.

Inside my world, my clients grow into…

So what if…

You could return to your body, your heart, and your truth - and start making choices from that place, instead of living by society’s expectations?

Here’s how we get you from "I’m stuck at a crossroads" to "Holy shit, I'm living my vision in full alignment with myself."

With the BCOME Framework™.

Through this framework and the life-shifting tools of…

High-Impact Coaching | Transformational Breathwork | Emotional Release | Channeled Meditations | Inner Child & Mindset Work

…and much more, we don’t just work on the story in your clever mind - we work with your whole system.

So that what you know, what you feel, and how you move through the world can finally start pointing in the same direction.

Don’t be surprised if, after working together, you…

• Finally do the thing you’ve been circling for months - or years. You say no. Hand in your resignation. Book the 1-way ticket. Leave the relationship. Start the business. Become a mom. Or consciously decide you don’t want to.

• Make space in your calendar for the things that actually matter to you - like going to your favourite yoga class on a Wednesday afternoon without feeling guilty about it.

• Sit down for dinner and realize you’re actually there - not mentally answering emails - and you realize that the people you love finally got you back.

• No longer ask 21 people what they think before trusting your own answer.

• Stop asking “What should I do?” - and start trusting yourself enough to ask “What do I know to be true?”

• Start to see the ripple effect of living differently - in your health, your relationships, your work, your creativity, your family, and the impact you leave behind. Because when you start living from what’s true for you, you don’t just change your own life - you change others’ too.

I want you to look back in a couple of months and feel fcking proud of the woman you’ve become - because you finally trusted yourself enough to make your choices for you.

Hi, I’m Myrthe – an ex-corporate challenging the standard.

I'm a Type A personality, Manifesting Generator, Aquarius, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven… yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.

Ex-corporate consultant. Recovering good girl. Former “I’ll just push through it” woman who built an entire life around being competent, high-functioning and emotionally self-sufficient… but I kept thinking: "there must be something more for me out there."

So, I left the 10-year long relationship with a “good guy”. Left my high-paying consulting job in Singapore. Left the life I had so consciously spent a decade building, because I thought it’s what I wanted and what was expected of me.

And instead, I moved to Bali. I started my coaching business. I discovered my soul’s purpose and built my life around it. I reconnected with myself and with nature.

Was it graceful? Absolutely not. There were panic attacks. Voice notes to friends. Crying on bathroom floors. Moments where I genuinely wondered whether I’d completely lost my mind.

There was also the tiny, inconvenient fact that I had never felt more alive.

Today, I live and lead differently – in Portugal, by the ocean, guided by my body, intuition, and a new definition of success that's more spacious, free, meaningful and most importantly: mine.

And I guide people who feel that same inner nudge - do exactly the same thing.

My super power? I make you laugh when things feel heavy, and I make you feel when you want to laugh it away.

I’m not here to nod along for 90 minutes while you talk. And I’m definitely not here to tell you what you should do.

I’ll ask you the questions you’ve been hoping nobody would ask. And then I’ll sit with you in the discomfort while you find your own answer.

I see what you can’t see yet. I hear the words you almost say. I’ll name the truth hiding underneath your six-minute explanation.

I’ll catch the stories you’ve become so good at telling yourself that they’ve started sounding like facts.

I’ll challenge you when you need challenging. I’ll hold you when things get hard. And I’ll make you laugh when you’re taking yourself - or life - a little too seriously.

It’s my job to hold space for the hard stuff, so that you can build the good stuff.

This is for you, if:

• You know something needs to change - even if you can’t quite name what yet.

• You’re at a crossroads and tired of trying to think your way to the “right” decision.

• You’ve read the books, done the therapy, filled the journals, cried about it, meditated and pulled cards on it… you’re self-aware as fck, but you keep running the same loop.

• You can see the life you want in your mind, but you haven’t yet trusted yourself enough to go after it.

• You’re craving more freedom, meaning and purpose - without losing your ambition, intelligence and edge.

• You’re done collecting insights and ready for your growth to actually show up in your decisions, relationships, work, calendar and everyday life.

• You’re done waiting for more time, money, certainty or the “right moment” - and ready to start listening to what you already know.

• You secretly envy women who make bold, life-changing decisions - and wonder what would happen if you finally let yourself do the same. 

And you are deeply, exquisitely, exhaustingly done with your own bullshit.

This is not for you, if:

❌ You want certainty before you’re willing to act (we both know you’re never going to feel ready, right?!).

❌ You want your coach to make the decision for you, fix you, or hand you a step-by-step blueprint for your life (this isn't a beginner room and you know how to take responsibility for yourself).

❌ You secretly enjoy the comfort of almost-changing-your-life, because then you never have to truly risk failure, rejection, judgment or regret.

❌ You want change, but not the discomfort or responsibility that comes with it (welcome to adulthood, babe.)

❌ You keep blaming the timing, your ex, your childhood, your nervous system, Mercury retrograde (lol) or "I have a lot going on right now" for the fact that nothing changes in your life (while you know deep down that part of you is just very attached to the safety of your current life). 

❌ You don’t trust yourself enough yet to make an investment of your time, money and energy before you have guarantees. That decision itself is part of the work.

And you don’t need me to convince you, you already know that this is IT.

Ways to work together.

Choose the level of support that matches where you are right now: one thing, one pattern or the whole damn next chapter.

Embodied Connection Session

Every new client starts here. A 60-minute embodied coaching session to get clear on the transition, decision or vision you’re navigating, reconnect with what’s true for you and experience my way of working - so we can see whether we’re the right fit to go deeper together. Limited to 1 per person.

60 minutes | €44

6-month 1:1 Mentorship

This is different than a few coaching sessions - this is a six-month container for real change.

For six months, you have someone in your corner who supports and guides you through what you’re navigating and towards the vision you’ll design for yourself - and who is there for you as life actually unfolds.

You’ll have 3x 60-90 minute coaching sessions every month, with a dedicated integration week between them - giving you enough support to go deep, space to integrate the work, and bring what’s happening in your real life back into the room.

Plus, you’ll receive access to:

• WhatsApp on-demand chat & voice note support (Mon-Fri)
  For the decisions, breakthroughs, questions, wobbles and messy middle that happen between sessions. This is GOLD! It’s what helps you to keep the momentum, never feel alone when facing your daily life struggles, have a space to go when you feel challenged (and not have to wait until our next session), and integrate everything you learn feeling calm, confident, loved, seen and not alone.

• Full access to my library
  Courses, meditations, breathwork, yoga channel and other resources to support you throughout the six months.

• 30% off my retreats
  Because sometimes stepping out of your normal environment creates the space for a different kind of shift.

This is for the person who's ready to go all in - on themselves, their growth, and the life they know is waiting for them. And they want the space, support and accountability to actually build it.

(If you’re interested in the 6-month mentorship, then book your 60-minute Embodied Coaching Session first and we can discuss whether this is for you!)

Disclaimer

Embodied coaching is a personal development program. The information shared within this container is intended for learning, reflection, and personal growth purposes only. While this space is designed to support meaningful transformation, results and outcomes cannot be guaranteed. Your experience and progress depend on your own participation, effort, commitment and personal circumstances.

Nothing shared within this program should be considered medical, psychological, financial, legal, or professional advice. Participants are encouraged to consult with a qualified professional regarding their individual situation before making any health, financial, legal, or other significant personal decisions.