You’ve read the books. You’ve done your therapy. You’ve self-coached, meditated, journaled your way through all your ‘baggage’. So why does it still feel like you’re circling around the same edges of your life?

Because knowing yourself isn’t the same as feeling, being and living as yourself.

At some point, awareness stops moving the needle - and that’s where you are now. You’re no longer who you were, but the woman you’re becoming isn’t fully online yet. The old ways don’t fit. The new ones don’t yet feel safe.

This is the “in-between” - the identity crisis no one prepared you for, and the part where most women either shrink… or rise. But it’s not a problem to fix.

Becoming She is an intimate mastermind for high-achieving, heart-led women navigating the “in-between” - ready to stop circling their potential and **start living it.**

Join us in Becoming SHe

You might be here because:

You’re in transition - a shift in career, identity, relationship, or home - and the ground beneath you feels shaky.
The life you built looks successful, but it doesn’t feel like you anymore.
You’ve spent years being the Good Girl - pleasing, proving, performing - and even though you’ve ticked every box, your heart is craving more: more depth, more truth, more adventure, more you.
Your old identities no longer fit (the perfectionist, the achiever, the peace-keeper…), but the woman you’re becoming - grounded, self-trusting, unapologetically yourself - still feels like uncharted territory.
You know you don’t want the conventional path; you want freedom, alignment, and a life that’s yours.

Yet even with all your self-awareness, the clarity flickers, the confidence wobbles, and you keep looping back into old habits.

Not because you’re failing - but because real change doesn’t happen in the mind. It happens in the body.

This isn’t another self-help course. This is for you, if you…:

Are an ambitious, high-functioning, wildly self-aware woman in a season of transition - approaching midlife or navigating change in career, relationships, home, or identity.
Have been on “the healing train” for a while and know that awareness alone isn’t setting you free anymore.
Are doing well “on paper,” but feel misaligned, flat, or restless in your heart.
Are ready to build the life you truly desire – not the life the world wanted you to have.
Can’t wait to move from knowing yourself to being yourself - fully embodied, and unapologetically.
Want your growth to show up in your daily life and in how you live, love, lead, and make decisions - not just in your head.
Are not afraid of the deeper inner work - you’re scared of staying the same.
Crave a softer, more embodied way of living - without losing your ambition, intelligence, or edge.
Are in no need for another mindset shift or ‘feel-good-course’– she wants embodiment, integration, and real, lasting change.
Are a CEO, entrepreneur, or leader in any form.

You don’t need more information.

You need to integrate everything you already know - physically, practically, energetically and emotionally.

So your growth doesn’t just live in your head - it lives in your bones.

That’s why Becoming She isn’t about chasing what’s next – it’s about becoming the energetic match for what you desire - in your body, your choices, and your everyday life. We honor the liminal space of the in-between as the birthplace of your next chapter - not something to rush through, but as a sacred rite of passage. And we’re here to support you through that “messy middle”.

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This is not for you, if you:

Have never done any inner work before – but no worries or judgment here! I’d still love to work with you in my retreats, courses or 1:1.
Want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it – Becoming She is only for women who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and own their desires and choices;
Are a surface dweller – you stay in your comfort zone and prefer “safe” conversations. We don’t do superficial, we go deep in Becoming She;
Are waiting to feel ready before you act – instead of realizing readiness is built through action;
Are looking for someone else to fix you, heal you, or give you the answers – instead of knowing that you will heal yourself;
You don’t fully trust yourself to make the decision to join and are not ready to invest in yourself big time, in time, money and energy – this decision itself and trusting that this is going to take you where you want to be is already part of your process;
Want a structured, rigid curriculum with ‘lessons’ – what you get here is real life integration and implementation of all those life lessons;
Are not 10/10 excited to do this work and doubt that this is what you need - I am not going to convince you, you already feel that this is IT!

The rooted method ©

Here’s how we get you from awareness to embodiment.

With my proven 4-step coaching & embodiment framework: The Rooted Method ©

CONNECT | The foundation of this method is key: the answers to your life are in your body. Not your mind. So, here you’ll reconnect with your body, heart and intuition. You can’t ‘think’ your way out of bigger life decisions and painful situations. You need to feel it.
CLARITY | Access a deep sense of clarity, remember who you are and what you truly desire for this life. Here you’ll reclaim your purpose and set a clear direction for your life. This will become your new inner compass.
COURAGE | Here you learn to face your fears, to process these hard feelings in a healthy way, and turn them into a portal of courage and confidence to create the change you desire in your life. Courage is a decision.
CONTAINMENT | Knowing your patterns, blocking beliefs and dreams is one thing, but living them is next level. Learn to integrate and embody all of this with love and to trust yourself in leading yourself towards the life you desire.

Through this method, you’ll grow into the woman you were always meant to be – unapologetically yourself, living your purpose, making an impact in the world, deeply loving and being loved, setting boundaries, and free to live life your way.

I'm ready to become my most authentic self

What you’ll find inside Becoming She - and what will change because of it…

Inside Becoming She, you enter a grounded container for the in-between, that helps you stay with discomfort instead of escaping it, so that your growth can actually land in your body, your choices, and your life.

Through embodied coaching, real-life integration, and compassionate tough-love support, you stop living your growth in your head - and start living it for real. The work is subtle, but the shifts are unmistakable (and they feel amazing!).

Here’s what begins to change:

You stop performing confidence and start trusting yourself and your choices
You release guilt around rest, softness, and saying no - and your energy recalibrates
You feel your power instead of managing how others perceive you
You set standards naturally, not defensively
Your relationships feel safer, more honest, and more aligned
You lead from wholeness, not from wounds or old coping patterns
Success looks and feels different - softer, simpler, and completely on your terms
You move through life guided by your body and intuition, instead of second-guessing every step
You live your purpose (and ditched that uninspiring 9-5)

You’re no longer surviving the in-between. You’re becoming through it.

Apply now for Becoming She

It’s through relationship that we become so chronically broken. And it’s through relationship, that we heal again.

And that’s why this community of women is going to be the next step in your healing journey. This space exists so you don’t have to walk your becoming alone. In the safety of this sisterhood, through shared vulnerability and honest connection, healing deepens, self-trust grows, and belonging is restored.

Hi, my name is Myrthe!

I’m the badass babe in all these pictures. I’m a Type A personality, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven, yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.

I used to live a life that made sense “on paper” - a long-term relationship, a high-paying corporate career in Singapore, a future with a solid plan. I was successful, capable, ánd deeply misaligned.

10 years ago, I left all of it behind, and it cracked me open. It forced me to face my deepest fears around safety, money, and self-worth, and to learn how to trust myself without guarantees. I rebuilt my life from the inside out: moving countries, starting my own business, slowing down, and choosing myself over approval from others.

Today, I live and lead differently - guided by my body, intuition, and a definition of success that’s more spacious, free and mine.

And now, I guide women who feel that same inner nudge, through the in-between space of their becoming, so they can build lives that actually feel like home.

Your investment

This is not six months of superficial content - it’s six months of being held while you redesign your life around your own deeper inner truth. And the investment reflects that. So, if you’re looking for something light, comfortable and cheap… this isn’t it. And that’s intentional. This is the kind of investment you make when you stop asking “Is this worth it?” and start asking “Am I ready for this?”

Here’s what’s included in Becoming She and 2 ways to join us!

Option #1 The Sisterhood

2x monthly group sessions, live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)
2x monthly energy sessions, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom (90 mins)
Regular Full or New Moon circles
1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)
Audio teachings (yes, like podcasts!) on relevant topics, to listen to while you’re on a walk or driving to work
A WhatsApp Group Love Chat, to receive support, love and guidance within minutes when you need it and coaching riffs from me with additional teachings and insights
A Library with exercises, yoga, meditations, breathwork sessions, courses, inspiration and recommendations for books & podcasts

Your investment

6 months | €5,000 in full or €899 p.m.

12 months | €9,000 in full or €799 p.m.

Option #2 VIP Experience

Everything from the Sisterhood, PLUS:
1x monthly 1:1 coaching session, in which we dive deeper into your personal challenges and healing journey, where you receive my undivided attention and we take your healing to the next level. These sessions will include in-depth inner child work, personalized mindset work and help you integrate the group work on a deeper level (60 mins)
1:1 WhatsApp on-demand chat and voice note guidance from me, for ongoing support and coaching in between sessions. This is GOLD! This guidance is what helps you to keep the momentum, gain a deep understanding of how the bigger themes manifest in your daily life and move through all your daily fears, blocks and challenges feeling calm, confident, loved, seen and not alone. With this, you will always have support just a text away (Tue-Thu)
10% discount on my retreats

Your investment

6 months | €8,000 in full or €1,399 p.m.

12 months | €15,000 in full or €1,299 p.m.

I'm in to become she

A couple of practicalities!

Becoming She will run year-round (with a few short breaks for holidays) and therefore has no fixed start and end date and no structured curriculum.
Note for Portuguese locals: Portuguese locals are eligible for a discount, depending on their monthly salary (proof required) and other income (for the group part only). Please ask when enquiring.