This is for you, if you:

  • Are an ambitious, high-functioning, wildly self-aware woman in a season of transition - questioning your career, your business, your identity, your purpose.

  • Are successful on paper (impressive job, thriving business, financial security)…but feel unfulfilled, misaligned, or restless in your heart.

  • Are a go-getter, high-achiever, get-shit-done type…but you've realized that success doesn't equal fulfillment (and you're craving something deeper).

  • Are great at thinking your way out of every problem… but you've completely lost touch with your body, your heart, your intuition (and you know that you need to reconnect).

  • Have been on “the healing train” for a while and know that awareness alone isn’t setting you free anymore.

  • Are ready to discover (or reclaim) your soul's purpose and build a life that deeply fulfills you - not the life the world wanted you to have.

  • Want your growth to show up in your daily life and in how you live, love, lead, and make decisions - not just in your journal.

  • Are not afraid of the deeper inner work - you’re scared of staying the same.

  • Crave a softer, more embodied way of living - without losing your ambition, intelligence, or edge.

  • Are in no need for another mindset shift or ‘feel-good-course’– you want embodiment, integration, and real, lasting change.

This is not for you, if you:

❌ Have never done any inner work before – but no worries or judgment here! I’d still love to work with you in my retreats, courses or 1:1.

❌ Want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it – Becoming She is only for women who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and own their desires and choices.

❌ Are a surface dweller – you stay in your comfort zone and prefer “safe” conversations. We don’t do superficial here.

❌ Are waiting to feel ready before you act – instead of realizing readiness is built through action.

❌ Are looking for someone else to fix you, heal you, or give you the answers – instead of knowing that you will heal yourself (I’m just here to guide you).

❌ You don’t fully trust yourself to make the decision to join and are not ready to invest in yourself big time, in time, money and energy – this decision itself (and trusting that this is going to take you where you want to be) is already part of your process.

Want a structured, rigid curriculum with ‘lessons’ – what you get here is real life integration, embodiment and implementation of those life lessons.

❌ Are not 10/10 excited to do this work and doubt that this is what you need - I am not going to convince you, you already feel that THIS IS IT!

 
 
 

You don’t need more information.

You need to integrate everything you already know - physically, practically, energetically and emotionally.

So your growth doesn’t just live in your head - it lives in your bones.

That's why Becoming She isn't about chasing what's next.

It's about reconnecting with yourself so you can remember who you are and what you're meant for.

It's about getting out of your head and back into your body.

It's about learning to feel instead of think your way through life.

It's about discovering (or reclaiming) your soul's purpose and your bigger WHY.

And it's about navigating the messy, terrifying, sacred in-between without giving up, running back to your comfort zone, or abandoning yourself halfway through.

 
 
 
 
 

The rooted method ©

How we get you from "successful on paper" to "deeply fulfilled in real life".

Here's how we turn "I know I'm meant for more" into "Holy shit, I'm actually living it."

With my proven 4-step coaching & embodiment framework: The Rooted Method ©

 
 
 
 

Through this method, you’ll grow into the woman you were always meant to be unapologetically yourself, living your purpose, making an impact in the world, deeply loving and being loved, setting boundaries, and free to live life your way.

 
 
 

 
 

 
 
 

Inside Becoming She, you enter a grounded container for the in-between, that helps you stay with discomfort instead of escaping it, so that your growth can actually land in your body, your choices, and your life.

Through embodied coaching, real-life integration, and compassionate tough-love support, you stop living your growth in your head - and start living it for real.

The work is subtle, but the shifts are unmistakable (and they feel amazing!).

 
 

Here’s what begins to change:

  •  You move through life connected with your body and intuition (and suddenly, decisions become easy because you just feel what's right, instead of second-guessing every step).

  • You discover (or reclaim) your soul's purpose (and it feels like coming home).

  • You stop performing confidence and start trusting yourself and your choices (like, actually trusting yourself… not just saying you do).

  • You release guilt around rest, softness, and saying no - and your energy recalibrates (suddenly you have bandwidth for things that actually matter).

  • You feel your power instead of managing how others perceive you (and it's intoxicating).

  • You set standards naturally, not defensively (and people either rise to meet you…or they don't. Either way, you're good).

  • Your relationships feel safer, more honest, and more aligned (because you're no longer abandoning yourself to keep the peace).

  • You lead from wholeness, not from wounds or old coping patterns (and people feel the difference).

  • Success looks and feels different - softer, simpler, and completely on your terms (no more hustling to prove your worth).

  • You wake up excited about your work (instead of dreading it) because it's aligned with your purpose.

  • You feel deeply fulfilled by how you spend your days (instead of counting down to the weekend).

 
 
 

Real-life examples of what this could look like:

✭ You finally hit "send" on the resignation email you've been drafting for 6 months… and you feel relief, not panic (because you trust yourself to figure it out).

✭ You pivot your business to something more aligned with your purpose… and your income increases (because you're finally doing work that lights you up).

✭ You have the hard conversation with your partner (or parent, or friend) that you've been avoiding for years… and you don't apologize for your truth.

✭ You launch your purpose-driven business, raise your prices, or pivot your offers… without needing 17 opinions first (because you trust your gut).

✭ You say "no" to the family gathering, the networking event, or the project that doesn't light you up…and you don't guilt-spiral for weeks.

✭ You wake up on a Tuesday morning and think: "Holy shit, I actually love my life." (Not because it's perfect… but because it's yours.)

 
 

It’s through relationship that we become so chronically broken. And it’s through relationship, that we heal again.

And that’s why this community of women is going to be the next step in your healing journey. This space exists so you don’t have to walk your becoming alone. In the safety of this sisterhood, through shared vulnerability and honest connection, healing deepens, self-trust grows, and belonging is restored.

 

Hi, my name is Myrthe!

I'm the badass babe in all these pictures.

I'm a Type A personality, Manifesting Generator, Aquarius, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven… yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.

10 years ago, I was living a life that made sense "on paper":

  • A long-term relationship with a "good guy"

  • A high-paying corporate career in Singapore

  • A future with a solid plan

I was successful, capable, and deeply unfulfilled.

I kept thinking: "there must be something more for me out there."

So I left all of it behind. And it cracked me open. It forced me to face my deepest fears around safety, money, and self-worth and to learn how to trust myself without guarantees.

I rebuilt my life from the inside out:

🌍 I moved countries (multiple times!)

💔 I ended the long-term relationship and went on a journey to find myself

💼 I started my own business

🌿 I created a slower life for myself with more space in my calendar

💖 I chose myself over approval & understanding from others

🧘‍♀️ I reconnected with my body and my heart through healing work, journaling, breathwork, meditation, and other somatic practices

🔮 I discovered my soul's purpose and built my life around it

Today, I live and lead differently - guided by my body, intuition, and a definition of success that's more spacious, free, and mine.

And now, I guide women who feel that same inner nudge - through the in-between space of their becoming - so they can discover their purpose and build lives that actually feel like home.

 
 


 

Your investment

This is not six months of superficial content - it’s six months of being held while you redesign your life around your own deeper inner truth. And the investment reflects that. So, if you’re looking for something light, comfortable and cheap… this isn’t it. And that’s intentional. This is the kind of investment you make when you stop asking “Is this worth it?” and start asking “Am I ready for this?”

 
 
 

Here’s what’s included in Becoming She!

  • 2x monthly group sessions, live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)

  • 2x monthly energy sessions, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom (90 mins)

  • Regular Full or New Moon circles

  • 1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)

  • Audio teachings (yes, like podcasts!) on relevant topics, to listen to while you’re on a walk or driving to work

  • A WhatsApp Group Love Chat, to receive support, love and guidance within minutes when you need it and coaching riffs from me with additional teachings and insights

  • A Library with exercises, yoga, meditations, breathwork sessions, courses, inspiration and recommendations for books & podcasts


Your investment

6 months | €6,000 in full or €1088 p.m.

12 months | €10,000 in full or €888 p.m.


 
 
 

A couple of practicalities!

  • Becoming She will run year-round (with a few short breaks for holidays) and therefore has no fixed start and end date and no structured curriculum.

  • Note for Portuguese locals: Portuguese locals are eligible for a discount, depending on their monthly salary (proof required) and other income (for the group part only). Please ask when enquiring.

 
 
 

If your body knows (trusts!) this is for you - follow that knowing.

You’re not lost. You’re becoming.