This is for you, if you:

  • Are an ambitious, go-getter, high-achieving woman in a season of transition - questioning your career, identity and purpose and feeling unfulfilled

  • Are wildly self-aware and have been on the ‘healing train’ for a while, but still feeling stuck

  • Want your growth to show up in your daily life and in how you live, love, lead, and make decisions - not just in your journal.

  • Are great at thinking your way out of every problem… but you've completely lost touch with your body, your heart, your intuition (and you know that you need to reconnect).

  • Are ready to (re)claim your soul's purpose and build a life that’s deeply yours - not the life the world wanted you to have.

  • Are not afraid of the deeper inner work - you’re scared of staying the same.

  • Crave a softer, more embodied way of living - without losing your ambition, intelligence, or edge.

  • Are in no need for another mindset shift or feel-good-course with ‘lessons’ – you want embodiment, integration, and real change.

This is not for you, if you:

❌ Have never done any inner work before – but no worries or judgment here! I’d still love to work with you in my retreats, courses or 1:1.

❌ Want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it – this is only for women who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and own their desires.

❌ Are a surface dweller – you stay in your comfort zone and prefer “safe” conversations.

❌ Are waiting to feel ready before you act – instead of realizing readiness is built through action.

❌ Are looking for someone else to fix you, heal you, or give you the answers – instead of knowing that you will heal yourself (I’m just here to guide you).

❌ You don’t fully trust yourself to make the decision to invest in yourself with this mastermind in time, money and energy – this decision itself is already a part of your process.

❌ Are not 10/10 excited to do this work and doubt that this is what you need - I am not going to convince you, you already feel that THIS IS IT!

 
let's do this
 
 
 

The rooted method ©

How we get you from "stuck-but-successful-on-paper" to "deeply fulfilled in real life".

Here's how we turn "I know I'm meant for more" into "Holy shit, I'm actually living it."

With my proven 4-step coaching & embodiment framework: The Rooted Method ©

Note: this is not a structured process that everyone goes through step-by-step. This is a fluid, continuous process, where you will move between steps all the time, depending on where you are in your journey.

 
 

Reconnect with your body, your heart and your intuition, after having lived in your head for so long - overthinking, analyzing, spiraling. You've disconnected from your body because it doesn't feel safe or familiar to feel. You've abandoned your intuition because you've been taught to trust logic over gut instinct. But your body knows things your mind doesn't. You can’t ‘think’ your way out of bigger life decisions and into your purpose. You need to feel it.

Remember who you are and what you truly desire for this life. You discover (or reclaim) your soul’s purpose, your values and your bigger WHY. When you reconnect with your body, the fog lifts, the noise quiets and you start to hear yourself again. You stop asking everyone else for permission… and you start trusting yourself as your own inner compass. This is where you get clarity on who you are, what you want and what your next step should be.

Learn to face your fears head-on and turn them into a portal of courage and confidence. Because here's the truth: you're not stuck because you don't know what to do. You're stuck because you're terrified of what will happen if you do it. You learn to process these feelings in a healthy way through your body instead of numbing or avoiding them. You learn to witness your fear without being consumed by it. And you learn to reframe fear as information - not a stop sign.

Integrate and embody all of what you and your life are becoming with love, instead of falling back into old patterns. You learn to trust yourself in leading yourself towards the life you desire. You build the nervous system capacity to hold your next-level identity. You stop abandoning yourself when things get hard. And you become the woman who doesn't just know herself and her purpose… she also lives it. Every single day.

 
 

With this method - brought to life through embodied coaching, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations, reflective practices, and somatic work - you stop just knowing your growth in your head and start living it for real.

I'm ready to start living my growth for real
 
 
 

What actually changes here:

  • You stop outsourcing your choices and make yours from a place of deep connection with yourself and your intuition.

  • You build nervous system capacity to hold bigger choices.

  • You make decisions you’ve delayed for years.

  • You stop abandoning yourself when things get uncomfortable.

  • You (re)discover and fully own your soul's purpose

  • You release guilt around rest, softness, and slowing down.

  • You redesign your life from alignment - not fear.

  • Success looks and feels different - completely on your terms.

 
 

Real-life shifts look like:

  • You finally hit "send" on the resignation email you've been drafting for 6 months… and you feel relief, not panic.

  • You launch your passion project, raise your prices, or pivot your business - without asking 17 people for permission first.

  • You end the relationship… and you don't spiral for months.

  • You say "no" to the company dinner, the family gathering or baby shower without guilt.

  • You attract that epic new project or cash injection naturally, because your energy speaks louder than your words.

  • You manifest 10x faster, because you’re flowing with life.

And then one day, on a random Tuesday morning, you wake up and think: "Holy shit, I actually love my life." (Not because it's perfect… but because it's yours.)

 
Apply now for Becoming She
 

Hi, my name is Myrthe!

I'm the badass babe in all these pictures. I'm a Type A personality, Manifesting Generator, Aquarius, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven… yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.

10 years ago, I was living a life that made sense "on paper":

  • A long-term relationship with a "good guy"

  • A high-paying corporate career in Singapore

  • A future with a solid plan

I was successful, capable, and deeply unfulfilled. I kept thinking: "there must be something more for me out there."

So, I left all of it behind. And it cracked me open. It forced me to face my deepest fears around safety, money, and self-worth and to learn how to trust myself without guarantees.

I rebuilt my life from the inside out:

🌍 I moved countries (multiple times!)

💔 I ended the long-term relationship and went on a journey to find myself

💼 I started my own business

🌿 I created a slower life for myself with more space in my calendar

💖 I chose myself over approval & understanding from others

🧘‍♀️ I reconnected with my body and my heart through healing work, journaling, breathwork, meditation, and other somatic practices

🔮 I discovered my soul's purpose and built my life around it

Today, I live and lead differently - guided by my body, intuition, and a definition of success that's more spacious, free, and mine.

And now, I guide women who feel that same inner nudge - do exactly the same thing.

 
 

The woman you once were isn’t broken. She just can’t take you where you’re going.

 
 

Your investment & what’s included

This is not a few months of superficial content - it’s 6 or 12 months of being held while you redesign your life around your own deeper inner truth. And the investment reflects that.

So, if you’re looking for something light, comfortable and cheap… this isn’t it.

And that’s intentional. This is the kind of investment you make when you stop asking “Is this worth it?” and start asking “Am I ready for this?”

Here’s what’s included in Becoming She!

  • 2x monthly group coaching sessions, live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)

  • 2x monthly energy sessions, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom (90 mins)

  • Regular Full or New Moon circles

  • 1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)

  • Audio teachings (yes, like podcasts!) on relevant topics, to listen to while you’re on a walk or driving to work

  • A WhatsApp Group Love Chat, to receive support, love and guidance within minutes when you need it and coaching riffs from me with additional teachings and insights

  • A Library with exercises, yoga, meditations, breathwork sessions, courses, inspiration and recommendations for books & podcasts

 
 
 
Apply for becoming she
 

A couple of practicalities!

  • Becoming She will run year-round (with a few short breaks for holidays) and therefore has no fixed start and end date and no structured curriculum.

  • Note for Portuguese locals: Portuguese locals are eligible for a discount, depending on their monthly salary (proof required) and other income (for the group part only). Please ask when enquiring.