You're ambitious and successful.
Like, you’re objectively crushing it.
You've got the impressive job title (or thriving business), the financial security and the respect from your friends. You’ve got the beautiful house, the nice car, the cool friends. Maybe you also have the picture-perfect relationship, and a kid or 2.
You’re making your parents proud, girl!
On paper, and from the outside? You're winning.
You've built the life everyone told you to want.
But late at night, when the house is quiet and you're alone with your thoughts?
You're slowly crumbling inside and you just can't shake the feeling:
"Is this it?"
"Am I really meant to spend the next 20 years doing this? Living like this?"
"There has to be more…right?"
You're not ungrateful. You know you're privileged. You know people would kill for your life.
But you’re not here to play by the rules. You’re here to build a life that’s yours.
Here's what's actually happening:
You wake up every morning and go through the motions… but you feel disconnected from yourself. Like you're performing a role in a play you never auditioned for.
You're good at what you do (maybe even great)… but it doesn't light you up anymore.
You've climbed the ladder, hit the milestones, checked all the boxes… and now you're standing at the top thinking: "Wait… is this what I was working toward?"
You look around at your life and think:
"I've built something impressive… but it doesn't feel like MINE."
"I'm making great money… but I'm trading my soul for it."
"People think I have it all together… but I feel like I'm falling apart inside."
"I know I'm meant for more… but I have no idea what that 'more' even is."
"What if I leave this job/end this relationship/change my life… and discover I don't actually have a purpose?"
"I have good friends… but they don’t seem to understand me anymore."
And as the smart woman that you are - you did what many conscious women do these days…
You started reading the books. Done your therapy. Went to yoga. You’ve tried everything. And it helped.
You’re deeply self-aware now. But it didn’t land yet.
Because awareness alone doesn’t redesign your life and change how you feel - it just makes you more conscious.
You’re still trying to fix it with your mind, instead of anchoring it into your body.
And that is exactly what your next level requires of you: embodiment.
You might be here because:
✨ You're in transition - questioning your career, your business, your identity - and the ground beneath you feels shaky as hell.
✨ The life you built looks successful on paper… but it doesn't feel like you anymore (in fact, it feels like a cage.)
✨ You've spent years being the ‘Good Girl’ high-achiever - performing, proving, pleasing - and even though you've ticked every box, your soul is screaming: "I know there’s more for me out there."
✨ You're great at getting shit done… but you've completely lost touch with what you actually want (because you've spent your whole life chasing what you "should" want).
✨ You're living in your head most of the time (analyzing, strategizing, planning)… but you're disconnected from your body, your heart, your intuition (and you don't even know how to get back).
✨ You're craving deeper meaning, purpose, and fulfillment in your work and life… you keep talking yourself out of that big decision you know you need to make, because you're terrified of making the "wrong" choice.
Yet even with all your self-awareness, the clarity flickers, the confidence wobbles, and you keep looping back into old habits.
Not because you’re failing - but because real change doesn’t happen in the mind. It happens in the body.
This is for you, if you:
Are an ambitious, high-functioning, wildly self-aware woman in a season of transition - questioning your career, your business, your identity, your purpose.
Are successful on paper (impressive job, thriving business, financial security)…but feel unfulfilled, misaligned, or restless in your heart.
Are a go-getter, high-achiever, get-shit-done type…but you've realized that success doesn't equal fulfillment (and you're craving something deeper).
Are great at thinking your way out of every problem… but you've completely lost touch with your body, your heart, your intuition (and you know that you need to reconnect).
Have been on “the healing train” for a while and know that awareness alone isn’t setting you free anymore.
Are ready to discover (or reclaim) your soul's purpose and build a life that deeply fulfills you - not the life the world wanted you to have.
Want your growth to show up in your daily life and in how you live, love, lead, and make decisions - not just in your journal.
Are not afraid of the deeper inner work - you’re scared of staying the same.
Crave a softer, more embodied way of living - without losing your ambition, intelligence, or edge.
Are in no need for another mindset shift or ‘feel-good-course’– you want embodiment, integration, and real, lasting change.
This is not for you, if you:
❌ Have never done any inner work before – but no worries or judgment here! I’d still love to work with you in my retreats, courses or 1:1.
❌ Want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it – Becoming She is only for women who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and own their desires and choices.
❌ Are a surface dweller – you stay in your comfort zone and prefer “safe” conversations. We don’t do superficial here.
❌ Are waiting to feel ready before you act – instead of realizing readiness is built through action.
❌ Are looking for someone else to fix you, heal you, or give you the answers – instead of knowing that you will heal yourself (I’m just here to guide you).
❌ You don’t fully trust yourself to make the decision to join and are not ready to invest in yourself big time, in time, money and energy – this decision itself (and trusting that this is going to take you where you want to be) is already part of your process.
❌ Want a structured, rigid curriculum with ‘lessons’ – what you get here is real life integration, embodiment and implementation of those life lessons.
❌ Are not 10/10 excited to do this work and doubt that this is what you need - I am not going to convince you, you already feel that THIS IS IT!
You don’t need more information.
You need to integrate everything you already know - physically, practically, energetically and emotionally.
So your growth doesn’t just live in your head - it lives in your bones.
That's why Becoming She isn't about chasing what's next.
It's about reconnecting with yourself so you can remember who you are and what you're meant for.
It's about getting out of your head and back into your body.
It's about learning to feel instead of think your way through life.
It's about discovering (or reclaiming) your soul's purpose and your bigger WHY.
And it's about navigating the messy, terrifying, sacred in-between without giving up, running back to your comfort zone, or abandoning yourself halfway through.
The rooted method ©
How we get you from "successful on paper" to "deeply fulfilled in real life".
Here's how we turn "I know I'm meant for more" into "Holy shit, I'm actually living it."
With my proven 4-step coaching & embodiment framework: The Rooted Method ©
Through this method, you’ll grow into the woman you were always meant to be – unapologetically yourself, living your purpose, making an impact in the world, deeply loving and being loved, setting boundaries, and free to live life your way.
Inside Becoming She, you enter a grounded container for the in-between, that helps you stay with discomfort instead of escaping it, so that your growth can actually land in your body, your choices, and your life.
Through embodied coaching, real-life integration, and compassionate tough-love support, you stop living your growth in your head - and start living it for real.
The work is subtle, but the shifts are unmistakable (and they feel amazing!).
Here’s what begins to change:
You move through life connected with your body and intuition (and suddenly, decisions become easy because you just feel what's right, instead of second-guessing every step).
You discover (or reclaim) your soul's purpose (and it feels like coming home).
You stop performing confidence and start trusting yourself and your choices (like, actually trusting yourself… not just saying you do).
You release guilt around rest, softness, and saying no - and your energy recalibrates (suddenly you have bandwidth for things that actually matter).
You feel your power instead of managing how others perceive you (and it's intoxicating).
You set standards naturally, not defensively (and people either rise to meet you…or they don't. Either way, you're good).
Your relationships feel safer, more honest, and more aligned (because you're no longer abandoning yourself to keep the peace).
You lead from wholeness, not from wounds or old coping patterns (and people feel the difference).
Success looks and feels different - softer, simpler, and completely on your terms (no more hustling to prove your worth).
You wake up excited about your work (instead of dreading it) because it's aligned with your purpose.
You feel deeply fulfilled by how you spend your days (instead of counting down to the weekend).
Real-life examples of what this could look like:
✭ You finally hit "send" on the resignation email you've been drafting for 6 months… and you feel relief, not panic (because you trust yourself to figure it out).
✭ You pivot your business to something more aligned with your purpose… and your income increases (because you're finally doing work that lights you up).
✭ You have the hard conversation with your partner (or parent, or friend) that you've been avoiding for years… and you don't apologize for your truth.
✭ You launch your purpose-driven business, raise your prices, or pivot your offers… without needing 17 opinions first (because you trust your gut).
✭ You say "no" to the family gathering, the networking event, or the project that doesn't light you up…and you don't guilt-spiral for weeks.
✭ You wake up on a Tuesday morning and think: "Holy shit, I actually love my life." (Not because it's perfect… but because it's yours.)
It’s through relationship that we become so chronically broken. And it’s through relationship, that we heal again.
And that’s why this community of women is going to be the next step in your healing journey. This space exists so you don’t have to walk your becoming alone. In the safety of this sisterhood, through shared vulnerability and honest connection, healing deepens, self-trust grows, and belonging is restored.
Hi, my name is Myrthe!
I'm the badass babe in all these pictures.
I'm a Type A personality, Manifesting Generator, Aquarius, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven… yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.
10 years ago, I was living a life that made sense "on paper":
A long-term relationship with a "good guy"
A high-paying corporate career in Singapore
A future with a solid plan
I was successful, capable, and deeply unfulfilled.
I kept thinking: "there must be something more for me out there."
So I left all of it behind. And it cracked me open. It forced me to face my deepest fears around safety, money, and self-worth and to learn how to trust myself without guarantees.
I rebuilt my life from the inside out:
🌍 I moved countries (multiple times!)
💔 I ended the long-term relationship and went on a journey to find myself
💼 I started my own business
🌿 I created a slower life for myself with more space in my calendar
💖 I chose myself over approval & understanding from others
🧘♀️ I reconnected with my body and my heart through healing work, journaling, breathwork, meditation, and other somatic practices
🔮 I discovered my soul's purpose and built my life around it
Today, I live and lead differently - guided by my body, intuition, and a definition of success that's more spacious, free, and mine.
And now, I guide women who feel that same inner nudge - through the in-between space of their becoming - so they can discover their purpose and build lives that actually feel like home.
Your investment
This is not six months of superficial content - it’s six months of being held while you redesign your life around your own deeper inner truth. And the investment reflects that. So, if you’re looking for something light, comfortable and cheap… this isn’t it. And that’s intentional. This is the kind of investment you make when you stop asking “Is this worth it?” and start asking “Am I ready for this?”
Here’s what’s included in Becoming She!
2x monthly group sessions, live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)
2x monthly energy sessions, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom (90 mins)
Regular Full or New Moon circles
1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)
Audio teachings (yes, like podcasts!) on relevant topics, to listen to while you’re on a walk or driving to work
A WhatsApp Group Love Chat, to receive support, love and guidance within minutes when you need it and coaching riffs from me with additional teachings and insights
A Library with exercises, yoga, meditations, breathwork sessions, courses, inspiration and recommendations for books & podcasts
Your investment
6 months | €6,000 in full or €1088 p.m.
12 months | €10,000 in full or €888 p.m.
A couple of practicalities!
Becoming She will run year-round (with a few short breaks for holidays) and therefore has no fixed start and end date and no structured curriculum.
Note for Portuguese locals: Portuguese locals are eligible for a discount, depending on their monthly salary (proof required) and other income (for the group part only). Please ask when enquiring.
If your body knows (trusts!) this is for you - follow that knowing.
You’re not lost. You’re becoming.



