This isn’t another self-help course. This is a space for the woman who is:

  • Wildly self-aware but stuck in the overthinking loop

  • Feeling something is shifting but can’t yet name it

  • Done “performing” to be healed and wanting to actually feel free

  • Ready to move from knowing herself, to being herself – fully and unapologetically

  • Wanting to let her growth show up in her daily life, not just in her mind

  • Outgrowing the relationships, habits and goals that used to fit

  • Craving to trust herself deeply - even in uncertainty, even when others don’t understand her path

  • Ready to build the life she truly desires – not the life the world wanted her to have

  • Craving a softer way of leading, living, and loving - without losing her ambition or her edge

  • Ready to stop playing it safe and step into her full power

  • Wishing to navigate the in-between with support from other courageous women who just “get it”, instead of spiraling alone in her head

You don’t need more information.

You need to integrate everything you already know.

 
 

And you’re standing in the sacred in-between where the old is gone, the new isn’t here yet, and growth requires learning to trust yourself in the unknown.

But, don’t worry, my love – you’re not lost. You’re in transit.

In Becoming She, we honor this liminal space as the birthplace of your next chapter - not something to rush through, but a sacred rite of passage. And we’re here to support you through that “messy middle”.

You’re growing into the woman you were always meant to beunapologetically yourself, living your purpose, making an impact in the world, deeply loving and being loved, and free to live life your way.

 
I say 'YES' to that confident woman!
 
 
 

This isn’t just mindset work. We go deeper.

Energetic integration. Nervous system regulation. Somatic healing.

So your growth doesn’t just live in your head - it lives in your bones.

That’s why Becoming She isn’t about chasing what’s next – it’s about becoming the energetic match for what you desire - in your body, your choices, and your everyday life.

 
 

So, what you’ll find here is:

  • A space that normalizes this in-between liminal phase and reframes it as sacred, not broken;

  • Grounded coaching and real-life integration that helps you stay in the discomfort instead of running from it

  • The strong combination of mind-work (awareness) and body-work (embodiment) that allows for this much needed integration;

  • Guidance that makes the unknown feel purposeful and full of possibility;

  • Permission to rest, release, and rebuild your life on your own terms slowly;

  • Compassionate tough love that will help you decide to release your old narrative and write a new one (because yes, it’s really just a decision) and own where you are today - even if ‘today’ is not where you want it to be;

  • A sisterhood who lovingly holds you while you do the work and celebrate you when the results begin to show.

 
 

Learning to become comfortable with the uncomfortable and to hold yourself in the unknown is one of the best things you can do to make your dreams a reality.

 

The rooted method ©

Our signature framework takes you from awareness to embodiment across four phases:

 

You’ll reconnect deeply with your body, heart and intuition, because that’s where you’ll find the answers to your life. We cannot ‘think’ our way out of the bigger life decisions. We need to feel it. Your body will give you all the signs, if you listen. So we have to slow down, reconnect and learn to listen. That’s when your body will become your compass. Your body is - subconsciously - holding on to many repressed and unprocessed emotions. You will be guided to feel your way through these blocks, so you can finally let them go. This will be a home coming.

Through this newfound connection with your body and intuition, you will access the clarity that you’ve been craving for so long. You’ll naturally reconnect with your deeper desires for life. You will remember who you are - beneath the noise of the world - and what you want. You’ll reclaim your purpose - it was always there - and set a clear direction for your life. This newfound clarity become your compass, guiding you forward in a way that feels unmistakably, unapologetically yours. This is more than insight - it’s a return to your inner truth.

Most people stay stuck because they never find the courage to choose the harder path. But you’re not most people. Through deep fear work, you’ll learn to face your fears, to process hard feelings in a healthy way, and turn them into a portal to courage and confidence to create the change you desire. Courage isn’t the absence of fear - it’s the decision to move forward, despite the fear. And that’s a choice. This choice becomes your ignition point: this is where your healing and the path towards the soul-aligned life you know is possible begins.

Containment is your grounded capacity to feel, process and integrate all of life’s experiences, your past, future desires and growth, without collapsing, dissociating, or abandoning yourself. Knowing about your patterns, traumas and dreams is one thing, but living them is next level. You’ll learn to hold and embody all of this with deep presence and you’ll trust to lead yourself towards the life you desire. You’ll start showing up as the woman you’re becoming. You Become She. You walk through life embodied in who you truly are - unapologetically you.

 
I'm ready to become my most authentic self
 
 

This space will heal your heart. Because it’s through relationship that we become so chronically broken. And it’s through relationship, that we heal again.

 
 

And that’s why this community of women is going to be the next step in your healing journey. It’s in the ‘together’ that we heal. It’s in the vulnerability of hearing others share and sharing your own deepest wounds and stories that we take our growth to this next level.

It’s in never feeling alone again. It’s in always having these other women, who are going through the same things as you are, that you will find your sense of belonging and belief in yourself.

There is a new layer of depth to be unveiled, when we grow together as women, instead of on our own, in a space of compassion, support and safety.

 
 


 
 

This is for the brave woman, who is:

  • Approaching midlife and/or in “transition” or at the cusp of a season of change – in any area of life (career, relationships, home, identity);

  • A smart, high-functioning, emotionally aware woman who’s been on ‘the healing train’ for a while – but knows awareness alone isn’t setting her free;

  • Ready to burn the script of who she was told to be and write her own;

  • Not scared of the dark and doing the work - just tired of walking the dark alone and scared of staying the same;

  • Hungry for more meaning, not more hustle;

  • Doing great “on-paper” – but not in her heart;

  • Curious to explore the edges of her comfort zone and grow into her next level;

  • In no need for another mindset shift or ‘feel-good-course’– she wants embodiment, integration, and real, lasting change;

  • Done living from her head – she wants to feel anchored in her body, guided by intuition, and calm in the unknown and uncertainty;

  • Tired of proving, pleasing, and chasing external validation - she wants success that feels authentic, grounded, and deeply hers;

  • A CEO, entrepreneur or leader in any form.

P.s. Open to anyone who identifies as a woman.

 
This is so me
 
 

This is not for you, if you:

  • Have never done any inner work before – but no worries or judgment here! I’d still love to work with you in my retreats, courses or 1:1.

  • Want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it – Becoming She is only for women who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and own their desires and choices;

  • Are a surface dweller – you stay in your comfort zone and prefer “safe” conversations. We don’t do superficial, we go deep in Becoming She;

  • Are waiting to feel ready before you act – instead of realizing readiness is built through action;

  • Are looking for someone else to fix you, heal you, or give you the answers – instead of knowing that you will heal yourself;

  • You don’t fully trust yourself to make the decision to join and are not ready to invest in yourself big time, in time, money and energy – this decision itself and trusting that this is going to take you where you want to be is already part of your process;

  • Want a structured, rigid curriculum with ‘lessons’ – what you get here is real life integration and implementation of all those life lessons;

  • Are not 10/10 excited to do this work and doubt that this is what you need - I am not going to convince you, you already feel that this is IT!

 
 


 
 
 

The work is subtle. But the shifts? Life-changing.

  • You love every part of yourself - even the ones you once rejected or hid

  • You stop explaining your choices and start trusting them

  • You release the guilt around rest, softness, and saying “no”

  • You feel your power, not “perform” it

  • You set standards instead of boundaries (and watch your energy shift)

  • You lead from wholeness, not from wounds

  • You live your purpose (and ditched that uninspiring 9-5)

  • Success looks and feels different - softer, simpler, and completely on your terms

  • Your relationships feel safe

  • Your lead with your intuition

And it feels freakin’ AMAZING.

 

You’ll no longer be surviving the in-between — you’ll be becoming through it.

Apply now for Becoming She
 
 

Hi, my name is Myrthe! I’m the badass babe in all these pictures. I’m a Type A personality, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven, yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.

My career started in Financial Consulting, in which I worked for almost 7 years, across Amsterdam and Singapore. So you can guess, I’ve got a story to tell. It took me many years, several breakdowns, lots of courses and trainings, a ton of inner work and even more courage to step away from the mundane, safe, within-the-box life I grew up in and follow the call of my heart. I’ve always felt that I wanted something more, something different out of life. So I went from working 70 hours a week in a well-paid, high-potential job, walking around in high heels and fancy dresses every day, to living my dream life in Portugal, close to the ocean, a house in a green valley, running a soul-led, purpose-driven business where I get to choose slow mornings and a spacious calendar.

It wasn’t easy. It took everything from me to break out of the mold and choose my own path (and to keep choosing it every day!). I had to work through my deepest fears around money, safety and worthiness, let go of friends, family and lovers who didn’t understand my path and start all over multiple times in multiple countries, all while building a business and building myself. But I did.

 
 

And I can tell you from the bottom of my heart, it is so worth it.

Nothing beats living a life that is so freakin’ aligned with who you are deep down, and you deserve it too.

 


 
 
 

Here’s what’s included in Becoming She and 2 ways to join us!

 
 
 

Option #1 The Sisterhood

  • 2x monthly group sessions, live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)

  • 2x monthly energy sessions, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom (90 mins)

  • Regular Full or New Moon circles

  • 1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)

  • Audio teachings (yes, like podcasts!) on relevant topics, to listen to while you’re on a walk or driving to work

  • A WhatsApp Group Love Chat, to receive support, love and guidance within minutes when you need it and coaching riffs from me with additional teachings and insights

  • A Library with exercises, yoga, meditations, breathwork sessions, courses, inspiration and recommendations for books & podcasts


Your investment

6 months | €5,000 in full or €899 p.m.

12 months | €9,000 in full or €799 p.m.


Option #2 VIP Experience

  • Everything from the Sisterhood, PLUS:

  • 1x monthly 1:1 coaching session, in which we dive deeper into your personal challenges and healing journey, where you receive my undivided attention and we take your healing to the next level. These sessions will include in-depth inner child work, personalized mindset work and help you integrate the group work on a deeper level (60 mins)

  • 1:1 WhatsApp on-demand chat and voice note guidance from me, for ongoing support and coaching in between sessions. This is GOLD! This guidance is what helps you to keep the momentum, gain a deep understanding of how the bigger themes manifest in your daily life and move through all your daily fears, blocks and challenges feeling calm, confident, loved, seen and not alone. With this, you will always have support just a text away (Tue-Thu)

  • 10% discount on my retreats


Your investment

6 months | €8,000 in full or €1,399 p.m.

12 months | €15,000 in full or €1,299 p.m.


 
 
 
I'm in to become she
 

A couple of practicalities!

  • Becoming She will run year-round (with a few short breaks for holidays) and therefore has no fixed start and end date and no structured curriculum.

  • Note for Portuguese locals: Portuguese locals are eligible for a discount, depending on their monthly salary (proof required) and other income (for the group part only). Please ask when enquiring.

 
 
 

You don’t need more clarity - you need more self trust.

That’s the work we do here.

If your body knows (trusts!) this space is for you - follow that knowing.

You’re not lost. You’re becoming.