As women, we’ve been taught for ages to be the Good Girls. Dress nicely, but not too nice. Be smart, but not too smart. Earn your own money, but not too much. Make everyone around you happy. Put up a smile all day. Be liked by all.

So, you’ve built a successful life ‘on paper’ – the life you thought you wanted. You’ve ticked the boxes, but it doesn’t feel like you. Your heart is craving more.

You’ve never wanted the conventional path – the checklist life, the rules to follow.

You’re here to create your own version of success. You’re a leader, one way or another. You don’t just want to fit in; you want to feel free.

So, your old ways, people and places don’t fit anymore: the people-pleasing, the over-achieving, the striving for control, the following the system.

But your new way of being – grounded, self-trusting, unapologetically yourself, building life on your own terms – still feels like uncharted territory.

This doesn’t mean you’re failing.

It means you’re in that sacred in-between, where you’re asked to trust yourself in the dark.

And it might feel wobbly, uncertain, unknown, scary…or even that you’re going backwards.

But deep down you just know that there is no growth without this in-between space.

So, don’t worry, my love – you’re not lost. You’re in transit.

You’re growing into the woman you were always meant to be – unapologetically yourself, living your purpose, making an impact in the world, deeply loving and being loved, and free to live life your way.

If you’re ready to…

• Move from knowing yourself, to being yourself – fully and unapologetically?

• Stop your ‘growth’ from just living in your head, and start letting it show up in your life as proof that you are becoming her – every day?

• Go from playing it safe to claiming your space and owning your power as the confident leader, lover and woman that you are?

• Trust yourself so damn hard to stay on the path you know is yours, even when life feels uncertain and people tell you otherwise?

• Build the life you truly want – not the life the world wanted you to have?

• Let go of who you once were and embrace the uncertainty of who you are becoming?

• Become the woman you need to be to meet your next level?

• Be held and guided through this chapter of change – as you rise alongside other courageous women who vibe on the same frequency of growth?

then Join us in becoming she

Join for a minimum of 6 months – stay forever.

“I know what to do – so why can’t I just do it?”

You know your patterns, fears, and traumas. You’re self-aware – but awareness alone hasn’t yet translated into living it. You keep looping in your mind, overanalyzing, self-coaching, instead of moving from your body and your truth.

Embodiment is when your actions finally match your knowing.

Because you can’t call in what belongs to your next level while still trying to create it from the frequency of your past.

The life you desire doesn’t meet you in control, fear, smallness or scarcity – it meets you in trust, surrender, and alignment. You have to become the woman who is ready to receive what she desires, before she actually receives it.

That’s why Becoming She isn’t about chasing what’s next – it’s about becoming the energetic match for what you want, in your body, your choices, and your everyday life.

So, what you get here is:

• A space that normalizes this in-between liminal phase and reframes it as sacred, not broken and supports you in this ‘messy middle’;

• Grounded coaching and real-life integration that helps you stay in the discomfort instead of running from it - freedom is on the other side of that!

• The strong combination of mind-work (awareness) and body-work (embodiment) through embodied coaching and transformational tools that bring you back to your body when your mind panics and help you process and release difficult emotions;

• Guidance that makes the unknown feel purposeful and full of possibility;

• Permission to rest, release, and rebuild your life on your own terms slowly;

• Compassionate tough love that will help you decide to release your old narrative and write a new one (because yes, it’s really just a decision) and own where you are today - even if ‘today’ is not where you want it to be;

• A sisterhood who lovingly holds you while you do the work and celebrate you when the results begin to show.

If you can become comfortable with the uncomfortable, suddenly your dreams are within reach.

We do all of this through…

The rooted method ©

You’ll reconnect deeply with your body, heart and intuition, because that’s where you’ll find the answers to your life. We cannot ‘think’ our way out of the bigger life decisions. We need to feel it. Your body will give you all the signs, if you listen. So we have to slow down, reconnect and learn to listen. That’s when your body will become your compass. Your body is - subconsciously - holding on to many repressed and unprocessed emotions. You will be guided to feel your way through these blocks, so you can finally let them go. This will be a home coming.

Through this newfound connection with your body and intuition, you will access the clarity that you’ve been craving for so long. You’ll naturally reconnect with your deeper desires for life. You will remember who you are - beneath the noise of the world - and what you want. You’ll reclaim your purpose - it was always there - and set a clear direction for your life. This newfound clarity become your compass, guiding you forward in a way that feels unmistakably, unapologetically yours. This is more than insight - it’s a return to your inner truth.

Most people stay stuck because they never find the courage to choose the harder path. But you’re not most people. Through deep fear work, you’ll learn to face your fears, to process hard feelings in a healthy way, and turn them into a portal to courage and confidence to create the change you desire. Courage isn’t the absence of fear - it’s the decision to move forward, despite the fear. And that’s a choice. This choice becomes your ignition point: this is where your healing and the path towards the soul-aligned life you know is possible begins.

Containment is your grounded capacity to feel, process and integrate all of life’s experiences, your past, future desires and growth, without collapsing, dissociating, or abandoning yourself. Knowing about your patterns, traumas and dreams is one thing, but living them is next level. You’ll learn to hold and embody all of this with deep presence and you’ll trust to lead yourself towards the life you desire. You’ll start showing up as the woman you’re becoming. You Become She. You walk through life embodied in who you truly are - unapologetically you.

This space will heal your heart. Because it’s through relationship that we become so chronically broken. And it’s through relationship, that we heal again.

And that’s why this community of women is going to be the next step in your healing journey. It’s in the ‘together’ that we heal. It’s in the vulnerability of hearing others share and sharing your own deepest wounds and stories that we take our growth to this next level.

It’s in never feeling alone again. It’s in always having these other women, who are going through the same things as you are, that you will find your sense of belonging and belief in yourself.

There is a new layer of depth to be unveiled, when we grow together as women, instead of on our own, in a space of compassion, support and safety.

This is for the brave woman, who is:

• A smart, high-functioning, emotionally aware woman who’s been on ‘the healing train’ for a while – but knows awareness alone isn’t setting her free;

• Doing great “on-paper” – yet deep down, she feels that something’s missing. She’s ticked the boxes, but it doesn’t feel like her;

• Moving through or at the cusp of a season of change – in any area of life: career, relationships, home, health – curious to explore the edges of her comfort zone and grow into her next level;

• Not broken; she’s evolving – standing in that in-between space where the old no longer fits, and the new hasn’t fully arrived;

• In no need for another mindset shift or ‘feel-good-course’– she wants embodiment, integration, and real, lasting change;

• Done living from her head – she wants to feel anchored in her body, guided by intuition, and calm in the unknown and uncertainty;

• Tired of proving, pleasing, and chasing external validation: she wants success that feels authentic, grounded, and deeply hers;

• Ready to rest without guilt, to soften without losing her edge, to trust herself even when life feels unclear;

• Not scared of doing the work – she’s scared of staying the same;

• A CEO, entrepreneur or leader in any form.

P.s. Open to anyone who identifies as a woman.

This is not for you, if you:

• Have never done any inner work before – but no worries or judgment here! I’d still love to work with you in my retreats, courses or 1:1.

• Want change, but not the responsibility that comes with it – Becoming She is only for women who are willing to step out of their comfort zone;

• Are a surface dweller – you stay in your comfort zone and prefer “safe” conversations. We don’t do superficial, we go deep in Becoming She;

• Are waiting to feel ready before you act – instead of realizing readiness is built through action;

• Are looking for someone else to fix you, heal you, or give you the answers – instead of knowing that you will heal yourself;

• You don’t fully trust yourself to make the decision to join and are not ready to invest in yourself big time, in time, money and energy – this decision itself and trusting that this is going to take you where you want to be is already part of your process;

• Want a structured, rigid curriculum with ‘lessons’ – what you get here is real life integration and implementation of all those life lessons;

• Are not 10/10 excited to do this work and doubt that this is what you need - I am not going to convince you, you already feel that this is IT!

Imagine yourself leaving the Becoming She space…

• Loving every part of yourself - even the ones you once rejected or hid;

• You no longer think your growth - you feel it in your bones.

• The pressure, performance, and need for validation? Gone.

• You’re grounded, calm, and fully at home in your own skin - radiating confidence and authenticity.

• You see yourself clearly - who you are, what you want, and your purpose in this life.

• You trust yourself deeply - no more second-guessing every decision (or what’s for dinner 😉).

• You no longer shrink to fit or wait for approval - you set the direction now.

• Success looks and feels different - softer, simpler, and completely on your terms.

• Your relationships feel safe. Your boundaries are clear.

• Your intuition leads, you trust your body’s wisdom and you live life from that place.

• You feel the freedom in everything - your choices, your energy, your daily life.

You don’t need more clarity - you need more self trust.

Hi, my name is Myrthe! I’m the badass babe in all these pictures. I’m a Type A personality, a go-getter, high achiever, passionate and driven, yet feminine and in my softer, slower, no-bra era.

My career started in Financial Consulting, in which I worked for almost 7 years, across Amsterdam and Singapore. So you can guess, I’ve got a story to tell. It took me many years, several breakdowns, lots of courses and trainings, a ton of inner work and even more courage to step away from the mundane, safe, within-the-box life I grew up in and follow the call of my heart. I’ve always felt that I wanted something more, something different out of life. So I went from working 70 hours a week in a well-paid, high-potential job, walking around in high heels and fancy dresses every day, to living my dream life in Portugal, close to the ocean, a house in a green valley, running a soul-led, purpose-driven business where I get to choose slow mornings and a spacious calendar.

It wasn’t easy. It took everything from me to break out of the mold and choose my own path (and to keep choosing it every day!). I had to work through my deepest fears around money, safety and worthiness, let go of friends, family and lovers who didn’t understand my path and start all over multiple times in multiple countries, all while building a business and building myself. But I did.

And I can tell you from the bottom of my heart, it is so worth it.

Nothing beats living a life that is so freakin’ aligned with who you are deep down, and you deserve it too.

Here’s what’s included in Becoming She and 2 ways to join us!

Option #1 The Space

• 2x monthly group sessions, live hot-seat coaching and mindfulness practices, sharing, celebrating and growing together (90 mins)

• 1x 1:1 session, to create a solid foundation for the group work and dive deep (60 mins)

• 1x monthly energy sessions, transformational breathwork, channeled meditations or other healing practices, to integrate and embody all you learn in your body’s innate wisdom on cellular level (90 mins)

• Audio teachings (yes, like podcasts!) on relevant topics, to listen to while you’re on a walk or driving to work

• A WhatsApp Group Love Chat, to receive support, love and guidance within minutes when you need it and coaching riffs from me with additional teachings and insights

• A private resource hub with reflective exercises, yoga, meditation and breathwork sessions, courses, inspiration and recommendations for books & podcasts

Your investment

6 months | €5,000 in full or €899 p.m.

12 months | €9,000 in full or €799 p.m.

Option #2 VIP Experience

• Everything from the Sister-mind, PLUS:

• 1x monthly 1:1 coaching session, in which we dive deeper into your personal challenges and healing journey, where you receive my undivided attention and we take your healing to the next level. These sessions will include in-depth inner child work, personalized mindset work and help you integrate the group work on a deeper level (60 mins)

• 1:1 WhatsApp on-demand chat and voice note guidance from me, for ongoing support and coaching in between sessions. This is GOLD! This guidance is what helps you to keep the momentum, gain a deep understanding of how the bigger themes manifest in your daily life and move through all your daily fears, blocks and challenges feeling calm, confident, loved, seen and not alone. With this, you will always have support just a text away (Tue-Thu)

• 10% discount on my Nourish Your Soul Retreat in Portugal (19-23 November 2025)

Your investment

6 months | €8,000 in full or €1,399 p.m.

12 months | €15,000 in full or €1,299 p.m.

A couple of practicalities!

• Your commitment is for a minimum of 6 months (irrespective if you pay in full or monthly) and after these 6 months you will receive a special alumni rate to stay on for as long as you like and keep receiving the value from this healing sisterhood space.

• Becoming She will run year-round (with a few short breaks for holidays) and therefore has no fixed start and end date and no structured curriculum.

• Note for Portuguese locals: Portuguese locals are eligible for a discount, depending on their monthly salary (proof required) and other income (for the group part only). Please ask when enquiring.

Will you be brave enough to choose yourself, over and over again?